Next Stop Milwaukee, Hopefully

There is no Marcus Welby medical care in America. It’s sad for patients. It’s sad for docs too. Lots of physicians want to do medicine that way, but it’s not practical in the 21st Century.

harold-and-bettyWe’re attempting our Milwaukee trip again. We leave from LAX this time (drive 40 miles save 50%), but again change in Phoenix. Please, no more shootouts/car chases from Tempe!

Lots of folks wrote me after I mentioned my mom in the blog. There were lots of suggestions, all different, some mutually exclusive. Still, the one thing that everyone seemed to agree on was being an advocate for mom.

That’s a nice way of saying keep an eye on the nursing facility.

There is no Marcus Welby medical care in America. It’s sad for patients. It’s sad for docs too. Lots of physicians want to do medicine that way, but it’s not practical in the 21st Century.

There was a meeting this afternoon at my mom’s current facility. Social worker, nurse, speech therapist, my dad, sister and brother-in-law plus me on the phone.

The physical therapist was a no-show. As explained, this person with the most insight to help us answer questions left work early. FML! Trudi and Jeff were justifiably furious.

As best I can tell my mom is making some progress. None of this comes easy or without effort and pain. She is frail. I can’t put myself in her shoes. We’re hoping she can reach the benchmarks that have been set.

roxie floorStef, who’s coming, drove down from H’wood with Roxie. Roxie and Doppler will be watched by Dop’s sitter who Roxie met today for the first time.

In the past Stef told me how Roxie responds as they exit the freeway. It’s a romantic story where Roxie basically comes to attention as they pull down the exit ramp to the light. She stays on guard for the next 5-6 minutes to our house.

On the way back today, in my car, I watched Roxie stand at attention as we passed that same spot! Crazy. Totally different experience, different car and length of trip. She still knew.

wpid-wp-1411080785006.jpegOf course there’s also good news in our trip. We’re lodging with my niece Melissa, her husband Mark and Charlotte who has promised to stay tiny for us, though the shot on the left now qualifies for “file photo” status.

Two full days on the ground. We’ll be busy

3 thoughts on “Next Stop Milwaukee, Hopefully”

  1. Prayers from this part of New England, Geoff, for you and yours (and especially for your Mom).

    And Charlotte is a cutie!

  2. Here’s one piece of important advice for you looking after your mom; try and get her into a NON PROFIT facility. She’ll get better care there. When my mom needed rehab the hospital sent her to a non-profit place in town. She did very well there and care was good. The next time she needec rehab the only place that had space was a for profit place in the next county. She never got out of it. She contracted Legionnaires Disease within the first 2 weeks and died. The real kicker was I wanted to sue the place so bad (I still do) but I couldn’t get a lawyer to take the case because if we did win (and they agreed I had a good case) any money we won would go straight to Medicare to reimburse them for the cost of her hospitalization just before she died. It wasn’t worth the effort. I’m still mad at everyone over this. I’m convinced that if she’d gone to the place she’d been before she would have lived longer.
    So do yourself and your mom the favor of finding a non-profit nursing home. No place is perfect but when you add the profit motive into anything morals go out the window.

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